Social anxiety is not a personality flaw, it is your nervous system doing its job a little too loudly.
Social anxiety is not a personality flaw, it is your nervous system doing its job a little too loudly.
In this episode, we reframe awkwardness and self-consciousness as signals of alert, not evidence that something is wrong with you. If holiday parties, crowded rooms, or feeling “on” leave you tense and overthinking, this conversation will help you understand what is actually happening in your body.
I walk you through seven gentle, practical tools designed to give your nervous system cues of safety so you can stay grounded and present. These are not mindset tricks or confidence hacks, they are body-based resets you can use in real time. You will learn how to quickly orient to the present moment, regulate your breath, and take micro breaks without disappearing.
We talk about why food or drinks often become a coping tool in social settings and how to expand your options without judgment or restriction. You will also learn how to prepare simple connection cues so conversations feel less draining.
This episode emphasizes choice, permission, and self-trust rather than forcing yourself to push through discomfort. Even using one of these tools can shift how safe your body feels. Confidence is not about being calm all the time, it is about knowing how to support yourself when you are activated.
If you want to feel more at ease socially without changing who you are, this episode is for you.
Time Stamps:
(3:07) Social Anxiety and Awkwardness
(8:03) #1: The Name and Notice Reset
(9:03) #2: The Anger Breath
(9:55) #3: The Micro-Step Away
(10:48) #4: The Connection Cue
(13:30) #5: The Pocket Script
(15:51) #6: The Sensory Grounder
(19:58) #7: The Permission Slip
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